My wife and I attended the Danbury Vet center for marriage counciling this past summer. The marriage councilor on staff, Dr. Ford would never make it in private practice hence why he is probably with th VA. Since service is free of charge to veterans, there is little incentive for him to be sensitive and unbiased to all parties allowing him to easily abuse his position. His analysis and approach were elementary and unprofessional. In short he caused more damage than good. Luckily I was able to see this early enough to seek real councilor. Do yourself a favor, pay for real professional marriage counciling.