I usually come in on Thursday after I have lunch with my husband.. and my 3 year old daughter is always with me.. I came in as usual, but my youngest wanted to sit in the back.. I really didn't see a problem with it as long as she was careful..I got her a few craft books to look at and keep her busy..while we continued our shopping she would stand up in the back of the cart.. and would hold on tight when we move.. plus I was being very careful.. I know her. If she was a uncontrollable child that was wreckless I wouldn't have taken her in!!After we made our selections on a few items and I was ready to leave. We made our way to the credit cards only register. Begin to take the hangers off the clothes just to speed up the process.. while waiting for the cashier to come over, my youngest is standing in the back admiring the business cards they have on top of the high counter..Up walks the cashier, and an older gentalman. She takes him in front of me. Didn't say a word to me. ( my 20 years of being a cashier I never did that. I would always excuse my self and ask the customer if they minded first..) pushed my items aside and said he needs room to sign.. very stern!While he's waiting to sign . She says to me in a stern drill Sargent voice " can you please make your daughter sit down" I looked at her and said " I have tried to make her sit the whole time I've been in here ". She then says to me " well your her mother! " surprised by her response I said "I know that! " then she spouts out "I'm just concern for her safety" and just stood there acting like she wasn't going to ring up my items at all till she sat down..my daughter was doing nothing wrong!!So I told her to keep there crap and I left..I had never been so humiliated in my life!1st) if you have a concern about something, you say it with a little understanding, don't make the parent feel Like they have no control over there kid..She is always so rude when I would go in.. I'm surprised they are still open!