A few months ago my husband and I went in for an ultrasound because of a threat of miscarriage. When we got in our tech told us that she would not be able to read us the results and we would have to wait to know the outcome until a dr called the results in to our midwife who would then call us, which was absolute tourture, but I understand is just part of their protocol. The tech made small talk asking questions like "what do you have planned the rest of the day?" And "do you want to have your children close in age?" Which now knowing she could see that our baby had passed away felt like an absolute insult. And the last half of the appointment she talked about her healthy pregnancy which made an already unbelievably painful situation even worse. Of course I am so happy for her and her little one, but it was not appropriate having been in such a vulnerable place (especially since she knew my baby died and I didn't). An already miserable experience made even worse.