I used to frequent the bistro 3x a month. My most recent visit came 4 hours after out-patient surgery while being tended to by my dear friend who happens to be a very attractive and wise woman 30 yrs my junior. Comments made or acknowleged by staff and crass guests while I was in the men's room that were later repeated to me has resulted in cafe society being removed from my midtown dining rotation, permanently. They lose a to-be-valued fan and I lose the joy's of a talented culinarian and the best pizza pie's and wings available in my neighborhood. Sad, only for the lack of etiquette.