Know your Constitutional Rights. If you are pro se know what Discovery is and make certain you are not blind sided by this ambush tactic. Do not believe your court file hasn't been altered. Many believe a court file is almost "Sacred" and this is not the case. Family court is riddled with so called Law Professionals who would take away your child for the right price. I am not being cynical, or unrealistic. I am still grieving the violation of my rights and my kids have literally been stolen from me. Narcissists are apathetic and cruel. Fight for your rights and you will not be a victim.